The CLOUD changes shapes without you even noticing. But regardless, the cloud is still just a cloud for you every time. You won’t begrudge cloud about its transformation. But you will to people.
Why not look at people the same as you look at clouds? Look at them at their core and ignore any forms you don’t like.
With a glance, you dissolve them to their fundamental part and mirror yourself in them. So how could you be angry at something so natural and beautiful?